If you are seeking a trans-informed therapist, you might also want to click on Gender/Transgender (above) to see a list of therapists.

Kris Spangler (they/them)

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist*
California License #MFC40841
*While my state license is called "Marriage and Family Therapist," I work with adult individuals, and that's it.

Hello!
I am delighted to introduce myself to you. I would like to offer you the fruits of my training and experience  in handling the complexities of being human.

You might be looking at this website because you feel depressed or anxious, or are having trouble in a relationship. Maybe you're feeling different from others or alone, or have experienced a traumatic event.  Perhaps you feel ready to find healing, or to make changes in your life. There are many reasons people come to see me.

I'm here to help.  I have been practicing psychotherapy since 1999 and have developed a style that tends to work for most people.

I enjoy being a flexible and challenging practitioner. I employ many tools, tailored to your needs, including homework, roleplay, art, EMDR (see the page called EMDR), visualization, relaxation techniques, body awareness, mindfulness and writing.

Areas of Focus

  • Self-esteem
  • Life Changes, Transitions
  • Gender Identity/Transgender Concerns
  • Alternative Family-Making
  • Stress/Burnout
  • Depression
  • Spiritual work
  • Trauma/EMDR (see EMDR page)
  • Intimate Partner Violence
  • LGBQI people and concerns
  • BDSM/kink/poly/sex work practitioners
  • Anxiety





I'm at ease with and knowledgeable of wide range of sexual orientations, sexual practices and relationship formations.

I also have a particular interest in working with gender variations and gender expansive people. 

I am open to your use of plant medicine, your spiritual orientation and anything else that's part of you.
YOU HIDE YOUR UGLY TRUTH SO BEAUTIFULLY
AND WHEN YOU REVEAL IT TO THE WORLD
YOU'RE EVEN MORE ATTRACTIVE

― Qwana M. "BabyGirl" Reynolds-Frasier, Friend In Your Pocket Conversations With M.I.N.I M.E. Class Is Now In Session